11 to 17 July 2016 Weekly Love Horoscope

Weekly Love Horoscope

All Signs Weekly Love Horoscope 11July 2016


Being back on planet earth with a bump even happens to an Aries. This week, loved ones, admirers, partners and exes just don't seem to be taking much notice of you. You feel left out in the cold. You wonder, where's the fire? Where's the passion? Where's the challenge? But at least you can start to think clearly again about what it is you truly want. We all 'want' something. (In fact this implies we're lacking something in the first place).  For example, some of us lack self-esteem so we want self-confidence or someone to boost our ego. But the qualities you lack are simply to find a balance between that go-getting, challenging rampant way of loving life and a more practical, realistic perception.  What you think you want is someone in your life to clear up of your emotional or bathroom mess. What you really want is to to be able to do so yourself.  Time to clean up your bathroom, but also your feelings.


Self-esteem is a very desirable quality these days. We see celebrities who apparently have everything they could ever want, including that elusive aura of self-love.  But of course most of them are as vulnerable as we are. They hide their self-doubts and inadequacies behind the glamour thing and still seem to have more relationship issues than women's magazines.  So glamour and social acceptance are themes in your chart this week. And it's not that you're hiding behind the constructs of fashion to cast yourself in some ineffable, untouchable glow. No, more that you're exuding this quality yourself. And if we're going to be honest, self-esteem is the last of your worries and social acceptance is the first. But why worry what others think, when if you love yourself,  universal love will be within you as it is without.


Like Mademoiselle Taurus, you too have a problem with social acceptance this week.  What will people THINK if my boyfriend does this or that? Secretly you'd like to be a bit of a madcap, careless, individualist, who doesn't get hung up on what society thinks.  But it's very scary to step across that line. It's the esteem which others hold in their eye of you that gives you a sense of self-love. This week, single or attached, men will just be downright awkward for the sake of it.
With Saturn's influence, conventional niceties and pretty laws win over wild idealism.  But just for one moment think of what you secretly desire. Isn't it to be a bit wild and free? Isn't it to be more romantic, unaffected by traditional values? Don't deny a little passion in your life, for in the months to come, the planets will be bringing you the chance to discover there's a fire within, as well as without.


There are good manners and there is etiquette. Both are necessary in society and culture for without them we'd all be savages tearing each others' throats out. Particularly where love relationships are concerned. We court the beloved in a style which favours the rules of engagement of our particular culture, and rarely do we dare step outside the line. You know, you're not supposed to text him until he's texted you. You're not allowed to assume this is IT; you must keep him on his toes; and never let him see you without your make-up. And so on. But this week, it seems the game is about to be played your way. At last, love moves according to your etiquette, and one which is probably as whacky and as unconventional as your partner getting married in a leotard.


Time to liberate your talents for a certain flair and a radical and improvised approach to life and love. Simply because for you, right now, life has to be improvised, it has to be made up as you go along. Do you ever sit in that bath plotting and planning how the date will work out like a Virgo would?  I would imagine never, unless you have a Virgo moon. And with lovely romantic flurries of planetary activity, you can begin to handle your man or new admirer with total devotion and pure genius. In fact, he will like your approach. And with a very open mind you will also like his responses.  Now most of us 'react' to other people's behaviour rather than 'respond'.  Reaction is emotionally driven from our inbuilt defence mechanisms. Response is to reflect, to take a attitude objectively rather than personally. So your responses this week will be both tender, yet observant, sexy yet compassionate, hilarious yet with feeling.  It's called being alive.


Accept it, you are Mercury ruled, and the contradictory nature of yours is as precious in this world as the discovery of DNA. Remember, we cannot have love without hate, nor yin without yang. There are part of the same package.  Love itself,  is full of oxymorons like unstoppable objects meeting immovable ones. So I'd also like to stick my neck out and predict that your true love values will be the motivation for your actions and decisions this week. You will see that for all your belief in formality and hierarchies and doing things by the book, there is something deeply mysterious about the universe and love. What's more, that you are only beholden to you. This kind of commitment to self-understanding means also you can truly love from your heart. And what is that, if not the truest love of all?  The only formality worth considering, is being the best of yourself.


Now in mythic astrology, Jupiter, represents Zeus in Greek mythology.  A stickler for getting things right, dogmatic and self-opinionated, he'd fly around his heavenly kingdom wooing nymphs, turning himself into a shower of gold when he felt like it and generally getting on everyone's nerves. But while this planet of ferocious idealism and hilarious antics continues to oppose your sign, you have a feeling that you're beginning to get your life right. You've met people, or seen things over the past year which have not only changed your perception of the world, but also of yourself. Your talents. Your needs. Your desire for more of something which makes you feel good to be you. And the bold, courageous side of your nature has seen you through some rough patches too. This week, you can begin to love from your soul. The shower of gold is coming your way.


Sometimes one needs a hard-line to balance the soft touch, sometimes one needs the categorical to balance the indefinable, and from now on you can shine your own positive light into the dark and feel reborn. Shakespeare wrote 'in time we hate that which we often fear", but we can also love it too. Love and hate are not mutually exclusive, they are part of the same polarity.  And I've met many Scorpios who quite openly admit to both hating and loving someone at the same time.  So why are these feelings so powerful at the moment? What is it about this exaggerated sense of desire, anger, lack or 'fear' that is getting to you?Frankly, you're ready for a challenge, a new romantic adventure. Soon, you can temper restless longings with instant sensual rewards of the sexiest kind.


If single, maybe you fear ever falling in love again. It's dangerous, you can get hurt. If attached, you begin to hate him more than love him. Why doesn't he know how you feel? Why doesn't he intuitively sense when you're down or need to be held? (They are very few guys willing to accept their innate clairvoyant abilities in the world,  but if you're involved with one, you're very lucky). You'll be glad to hear, this week, it's all about chucking out the old, making a fresh start, anything other than being stuck in the pit with the bad feelings or the pain. Gradually you can let go and move on. Gradually you are waking up to the fact that you're worth more than feeling inadequate or unwanted or rejected or lonely. You have compassion and passion in bucket-loads, and it's time to ring the changes. So instead of weeping for what has been and cannot be ever again, it's time to laugh both at the world, and at yourself.


OK, your personal world seems to be a rather unloving place.  But I want you to think of this.  When we seriously start to look at who we are and what we want, when we seriously have to face our fears, our needs, our joys, it's then we can look at both the dark of ourselves and more importantly the light. And what will be positive and true and focusssed and life-changing in the coming months is you. Because remember that litlte word change? Time to start expressing those desires to yourself - literally. In the mirror, speak to yourself, aloud, and then share those words with the one you love, if attached. Start to live the words rather than merely dream them. You will be surprised what a dynamic and enriching love life you are about to experience. Start loving what you once feared; yourself.


A lover, partner or even vague romance is not only bringing you down to earth, but also opening your eyes to how mysteriously love moves. And your innate suspicion brings you a range of fantasies from 'why did x speak to Y and not me, they must be up to something' to 'she's looking at my man in a way that means trouble'. The jealous side of your nature will certainly be on red alert this week as the planets stir up a nest of vipers. But you have little choice but to air your feelings and generate a few home truths. And those are ones that mean you begin to see how to love someone without trying to control every move they make. What do you fear so much? Is it perhaps that deep down inside you feel really vulnerable in the face of love? Step outside the ring of fire, and feel the centre of your soul.


Of course, love is never easy. You've been hurt, you know what it is to lose someone, and yet there's always a feeling in the back of your mind that you must get on with life and live it to the full. And if romantic encounters are proving complicated, then in a way that merely adds to the spice and joy of being able to handle the cirumstances with spirit and initiative. This week, with a renewed sense of self-esteem, you decide to break the ice, take a deep breath and tell that someone special what you really want and need in a relationship. Wants and needs are often very different, make sure they're not incompatible and you can start to truly live that dream.

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