Cancer in Love 2019
Pluto has been in your 7th house for many years, as was mentioned above. This shows a ‘cosmic purge’ – a detox – of the whole love and social life. This has been going on for years and will continue for many more. This purge has taken many forms. Some old relationships died. Friends have died – in some cases literally, in others, the friendship itself. It’s as if they were dead to you. Many a marriage or serious relationship has gone down the tubes. Even the good ones have had ‘near death’ kinds of experiences.
This will go on for many more years. It is a long-term project. Saturn, your love planet, has been in Sagittarius since December 2015. In general this is good for love. It shows an expansion of the social sphere. New friends and new love relationships are happening (and they too will get detoxed in due course).
With Saturn as your love planet you tend to be cautious in love matters. It takes time to fall in love. You like to test things and make sure everything is right before you commit yourself. But these days you are less cautious. Love happens more quickly. You’re more spontaneous about it.
Saturn in Sagittarius shows an attraction to foreigners, members of the clergy and professor types – mentor types. With these aspects one can fall in love with the minister, rabbi or imam. Also with the professor or guru.
You’re attracted to people you can learn from and a good theological discussion these days is a form of foreplay. Your place of worship or your college is the venue for romance these days. Romance can happen through the intervention of your worship leader or people in your place of worship. Likewise through your professor or at university functions.
Saturn is ruling your love life from your 6th house of health and work. This shows many things. First, you’re also attracted to health professionals.
Romance can happen as you pursue your normal health goals – perhaps at the doctor’s office, the lab, the gym or the health spa. Perhaps with people involved in your health. (If you go to school with them or attend the same church or place of worship, all the better.)
You yearn for a healthy love life and a healthy marriage.
Don’t let this urge, which is basically good, make you too critical or judgemental, however. This can do more harm than good. Don’t let it make you search for pathology either – a tendency with this kind of aspect. If there are pathologies in your relationship they will arise quite naturally without you trying to force them out. When they arise naturally, that will be the time to deal with them.
There are plenty of opportunities for love affairs this year. Jupiter is making fabulous aspects to Pluto, the ruler of your 5th house of fun and love affairs. But serious love is more likely after September 10, as Jupiter moves into better aspect with your love planet.
Your best love and social periods will be from March 21 to April 19, July 23 to August 23 and November 22 to December 21.