Virgo in Love 2019
Love is a bit more complicated than usual this year. However, the planetary strength in your 7th house shows that you’re focused here. It is important to you and thus you’re willing to deal with the complications and challenges. This focus tends to success.
The first complication is that you’re more self-centred this year – especially until September 9. You tend to want things your own way. You’re focused on personal fulfilment. Your spouse, partner or current love is pretty much the same. Neither is right or wrong. Sometimes one is, sometimes the other. There is a need to bridge your competing interests. Sometimes you lean one way, sometimes the other.
The second complication is your idealism in love. You have always had high ideals in love, but with Neptune, your love planet, now in your 7th house of love, these ideals have grown exponentially. It is good to have high ideals in love. It is good to want the highest and the best. You deserve it – everyone deserves it. However, one needs to know where to look for this. If we are looking outside ourselves there is always a feeling of disappointment – disillusion. For, though some people have a greater capacity for love than others, no mortal can live up to such high ideals. So a subtle sense of disappointment is felt even in the best of relationships. There is a cosmic agenda here. You’re being led to spiritual love – the Divine Love – Agape as the Greeks called it. Many will find it in the coming years. It is the only power that can love you perfectly and can fulfil every need in love.
The third complication is getting the family – and especially a parent or parent figure – to be in harmony with the current love and to accept him or her. The reverse is also true. The current love might not be accepting of the family. This is going to be a challenge. But you will handle it.
Two eclipses will occur in your 7th house of love this year. The first is a solar eclipse on March 9 (in America it is on March 8) and the second a lunar eclipse on September 16. These will test your current relationships. Dirty laundry will be revealed so that it can be cleansed. Good relationships will survive and get even better, but flawed ones could dissolve.
If you’re single and working towards your first marriage, this is not advisable this year. Even a good relationship will need more time. Those working towards their second or third marriage have a static kind of year. But those working towards their fourth marriage have excellent prospects. Romance is happening.
Your best love and social periods will tend to be February 18 to March 20, June 21 to July 23, and October 23 to November 21.
The most stressed-out love periods will tend to be from May 21 to June 20 and November 22 to December 21. This is when more patience is needed with the beloved.